Why You Still Feel Tired (Even After All the Inner Work)
- Devika Gupta
- Jul 3
- 3 min read
A gentle message for the self-aware, spiritual woman who still feels exhausted

Hi love,
You’ve done the inner work.
You’ve journaled. You’ve cried. You’ve shown up. You’ve let go of what you could.
So why do you still feel so… tired?
Not just sleepy. But emotionally, energetically worn out.
Today, I want to speak directly to women like you—especially if you’re…
A women rebuilding your life, standing on a cross roads or
A heart-led solopreneur, holding your business and your emotions together
This isn't about what you haven’t done. It's about what’s still lingering, quietly asking for space.
Burnout isn’t always loud.
Sometimes it looks like insight with no action.
Clarity with no energy.
Healing… without rest.
You’ve carried so much. And you’ve held it all with grace.
But insight without integration? Still leaves you tired.
Healing doesn’t just need understanding—it needs energy work.
Let me share something from my space.
A client from Canada recently came to me, exhausted and torn.
She was in the thick of a life-changing decision—whether to leave her
emotionally abusive marriage and return to India.
On the surface, she was “doing all the work”—reading, reflecting, staying spiritual.
But inside, sleep had abandoned herself.
Her nervous system was on high alert.
And one question kept echoing louder than anything else:
“Am I doing the right thing?”
She wasn’t looking for someone to tell her what to do.
She was longing for an inner confirmation—a felt sense of knowing she
could trust herself again.
Here’s how we approached it:
Tarot as a Mirror, Not a Map
We began with Tarot—not as a prediction tool, but as a sacred mirror.
The cards didn’t dictate her future.
They gently reflected the truth she had buried beneath fear and confusion.
They revealed the version of her who was already wise, already clear—and simply needed permission to listen.
Intuitive Journaling to Anchor the Shift
Once her inner voice surfaced, we used intuitive journaling to ground it.
This isn’t just writing—it’s a guided emotional inquiry that connects your conscious and subconscious mind.
It helped her separate fear from truth, and transformed abstract clarity into concrete courage.
Each prompt she answered helped her reclaim a little more power, a little more readiness to act.
Constellation Therapy to Shift the Emotional System
Finally, we explored the family field using Constellation Therapy.
This work revealed the hidden emotional dynamics between her,
her partner, and her parents. It helped us tune into the unseen
influences that were creating resistance—not just in her mind,
but in her energetic system.
She could now see the emotional weight her parents were carrying
around her decision. By honouring that, and energetically
repositioning her role within the family field, something remarkable happened:
Their resistance softened. Their support increased. She no longer felt like she was fighting this decision alone.
The Aftermath: Quiet Confidence
She didn’t walk away “fixed.”
She didn’t need to be.
But she walked away…
✔️ Calm
✔️ Able to sleep again
✔️ Connected to her breath
✔️ And most importantly—trusting herself again
This is what intuitive healing work does.
In nearly every tarot, journaling, or constellation session I hold, clients say the same thing:
“I didn’t get a new answer. I just finally felt ready to act on what I already knew.”
Because healing isn’t about adding more information.
It’s about releasing the noise so you can finally hear yourself.
And when your energy aligns with your truth—clarity turns into action.
Ask yourself,
If your tiredness could speak, what would it ask you to stop carrying?
Journal on:
“The part of me that’s most exhausted is the one who keeps trying to _________.”
Let it flow. No fixing. Just witnessing.
If this resonates—if you’re standing between chapters, craving emotional relief and direction or you are a heart-led solopreneur, who supports others but secretly feels emotionally burnt out—I’d love to support you.
I offer:
Intuitive Tarot
Intuitive Art Journaling Sessions
Family Constellation & Energy Healing
These sessions are for emotional women, spiritually curious, healing seekers who’ve done the work but need to feel ready again.
This is your reminder.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
No fixing. Just truth, safety, and permission to rest.
👉 Book your session here → [https://calendly.com/content-devika/discovery-call]
With softness,
Your Inner Voice Activator,
Devika







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