Have you ever noticed something strange about the way you love? You don’t just love. You understand , You adjust , You make space , You forgive , and try harder . When the relationship starts hurting, you don’t walk away immediately. You pause. You ask yourself questions like: Maybe they’re going through something. Maybe I misunderstood them. Maybe if I explain my feelings better, things will change. So you give the relationship another chance. And then another. And another.